Valentine’s Day gets a bad rap. Too sappy. Too pink. Too much pressure. But hear us out, Valentine’s isn’t just for the one. It’s also for your best friends, your family, and yes, yourself! Because self-love isn’t just a hashtag, it’s a lifestyle.

So if you’re stuck on what to get your special someone (or people), we’ve done the hard work for you. Skip the predictable chocolates and roses this year and give something thoughtful, fun, and beautiful that shows you actually put some thought into them.

Here’s a Valentine’s guide to make February 14 extra special (and make your life a whole lot easier).